Creating a parenting plan is one of the most challenging tasks you’ll have to do when you split up with someone and share children. There are several clauses and terms that you can include in this plan, so you must ensure that you’re including what’s in your child’s best interests.
Many people become so hyper-focused on the parenting time schedule and decision-making powers that they forget about other things that need to be covered in the plan. Considering these two clauses may be beneficial if you’re in the midst of creating your parenting plan.
1. Right of first refusal
The right of first refusal requires the parent who has the child to ask the other parent if they want to spend time with the child instead of having someone else watch them. Various terms can be included in this situation, such as requiring this only for time spans that meet a certain minimum.
The parent who is being asked if they want the child during the time childcare is needed should give a swift answer. That will give the parent time to find someone else if the other parent can’t watch the child.
2. Vacation terms
Some parenting plans set stipulations for vacations. Some of these include geographic restrictions or allowances, vacation dates trumping the traditional parenting time schedule and notification requirements. One thing to consider is that international travel will require a passport, so both parents will have to work together to obtain one.
The parenting plan must be set based on what your children need. Determining the terms to include might be challenging, so it may be beneficial to work with someone who understands your circumstances and can assist with getting everything set.